I talk so much about how Winnie is coping and about how our family in general is coping. Then someone will ask me, “But how are YOU doing?” And I remember that I need to focus on me sometimes. I need to talk about me sometimes. Writing it down gives me clarity about myself. Before … Continue reading Me


I’ve been having a lot of guilt. Not for the reason you would think though. I’ve been having a lot of mom guilt. It shouldn’t even be a thing for me right now, right? But it is. It’s bad. I had the most amazing break overnight this week, thanks to some incredibly generous people. And … Continue reading Guilty


This is the post that has links to some of the products I shared in the video below. These are gifts that we've been sent by some of you amazing humans who are so supportive and so kind. Thank you so much. See video here

Dude’s Day

Can she feel it? Can she sense what's happening today? Does she know it's supposed to be a celebration? Can she perceive my sadness that I'm desperately trying to hide just to get through this day? She's only three. This is her fourth Father's Day during her lifetime. She doesn't remember last year or the … Continue reading Dude’s Day